
Common courtesy…is it still with us today? Or has it become a “thing” of the past? Personally, I think it is still alive and well for millions of people around the globe. Today’s post lists some great things to remind us of things that we can do each day to be thoughtful and courteous to the people around us.
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1. In case you miss a call, drop a message as soon as possible if you’re unable to call back.
2. Pay back borrowed money as soon as possible no matter how little the amount is. Don’t assume that they don’t need it, and never make them ask you for it.
3. Turn the volume down when you’re watching video, playing music or playing a game on your phone in a public place or, better
yet, use headphones.
4. Don’t press your phone or use headphones when someone is having a conversation with you.
Unplug the headsets from your ears even if nothing is playing and give them your undivided attention.
5. When using someone else’s phone or computer, don’t go through their stuff without permission.
6. Always leave the last piece of meat for the person who bought it unless they insist they won’t eat it.
7. Don’t use loudspeaker of the phone to have a two person conversation unless you are unable to hold the phone.
8. When someone else cooks for you, offer to help clean the kitchen.
9. If you stay the night at someone’s house, make the bed or fold the blankets when you leave.
10. Don’t let your arguments escalate in public. Find some place else to continue arguing where others won’t feel uncomfortable or interested.
11. If you ask your friends for help with some house work, feed them as payment.
12. When someone buys you food or coffee, try to return the favor within a week (if you can).
13. When you borrow someone’s car, fill up the tank as a way of saying ‘thank you.’
14. Donβt pick up a call while you are engaged in conversation without excusing yourself.
15. Make sure you don’t forget to return that book you borrowed.
16. When someone gives you a gift, no matter how small it is or the way it was presented, even if it isn’t up to your expectation, just say ‘Thank You.’
17. When you have someone older than you who is friendly and makes himself free with you, speak to them with respect.
18. Don’t feel too big to be corrected or reject good advice because you feel it’s your life… Life is a ring; the next blow can come anytime.
19. When you receive messages on social media, try and reply. Don’t feel too proud, maybe because you are a celebrity. Remember, no one knows tomorrow.
20. Last but not least…do something as simple as holding a door open for someone.
What would some other things that you would do to be courteous to other people? What would you add to this list?
Good points to ponder π
Yes absolutely true and agree totally with your valuable and profound words to follow.
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Courteous π
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On planes I try never to use the arm rest if Iβm stuck in the middle. If by a window in the sunny side I ask if dear mate wants it shut.
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This is very interesting from the point of view that these things were second nature to my generation, and I have to admit that these days, these same things shine for their absence. How it happened?
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Great point there my friend!! I have no idea what happened. I have always been the kind of person who really enjoys helping and being kind to others. Wish more people were like that π
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Nice points. Let’s see, how about… If someone is standing in back of you in a store or grocery line and they only have a couple of items, compared to your full shopping cart, let them go ahead of you.
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That is another great idea!!!
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Great post!
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Great list! Always treat others as you would like to be treated.
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