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Ryan McGuire
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Once upon a time, an old man spread rumors that his neighbor was a thief. As a result, the young man was arrested. Days later he was proven innocent. After being released, he sued the old man for wrongly accusing him.

In court, the old man told the judge, “They were just comments, they didn’t harm anyone.”

The judges, before passing sentence on the case, told the old man, “write all the things you said about him on a piece of paper.” “Cut it up into little pieces and on the way home, throw the pieces of paper out of your car window. Tomorrow, come back to hear the sentence.”

The next day, the judge told the old man, “Before receiving the sentence, I want you to go out and gather up all the pieces of paper that you threw out of your car window yesterday.”

The old man said, “I can’t do that! The wind spread them all over the place and won’t know where to find them.”

Then the judge replied, “The same way, simple words and comments may destroy the honor of a person to such an extent that a person will not be able to fix it. If you can’t speak well of someone, don’t say anything at all. Let’s all be masters of our mouths, so that we won’t be slaves of our words.”

“Gossips are worse than thieves because they steal another person’s dignity, honor, reputation and credibility which are impossible to restore. So remember this: when your feet slip, you can always recover your balance but when your tongue slips, you can never recover your words!”

“Those who guard their mouths and their tongues keep themselves from calamity.” ~ Proverbs 21:23

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17 responses to “Something Worse Than A Thief”

  1. Judy Avatar
  2. Adeyemi Simeon Avatar

    First time I am commenting on your blog although i follow thru the mails….

    I love this post so much and it applies to my recent situation with a friend …

    thanks for this!

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    1. Coach Muller Avatar

      You are very welcome my friend!! I am glad that you enjoy my site. I hope you continue to come back and visit often 🙂

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  3. kerbey Avatar

    It is amazing how much havoc our mouths can cause. The power to destroy with words, to build up with a kiss, to eat until we are gluttonous. The strength it takes just to keep a mouth closed!

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  4. Anne Lene @ MinimalistSometimes Avatar

    So very, very true! Words wrongfully spoken, can surely ruin lives!

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  5. Carolyn Avatar

    I want to use this story for my Magazine….I will credit CoachMuller

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    1. Coach Muller Avatar

      Nice!!! That wold be awesome…please feel free to do so. What is the name of your magazine? Could you send me a copy of the article / story once it is published? If so, that wold be great!!! Please keep me updated my friend!!

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  6. Mary Avatar
    Mary

    Thank you Coach Muller for this very wonderful and inspiring short story. I would like ask for your permission to allow me to use this as my listening passage for my practice demonstration teaching. God bless you more… 🙂

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    1. Coach Muller Avatar

      YES! You absolutely may share this with other people. Please let me know how it goes. Have an awesome day!!

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  7. Chona Cruz Avatar
    Chona Cruz

    Just got this done to me a few days ago. I’ll tell you mine. An Aunt came from Arizona to visit my Uncle her brother in Michigan. I said to my niece I’ll take you to see Aunt Mary since it’s been fifteen years or more since you seen her. Off we went as I was traveling I thought I’d text let them know were surprising Aunt Mary. To my shocking & surprise my cousin text me Aunt Mary don’t like you-you stole from her-your running with a man and on and on. I couldn’t believe what I was reading. While I lived in Arizona I hadn’t seen her but twice and it was in a 20 year span myself . And I met up have her a huge bag of Christmas gifts and took her to Olive garden. I’m the one who gave and called and traveled to see her always. So now this Aunt has tarnished my name reputation with my cousins here in Michigan. And I was hoping to reconnect with them know them since I now leave several hours instead of several thousand miles. I did not do this steal as she says and I’m known as a giver and big heart. At fifty seven years of age what a blow. I now consider her not an Aunt and dead to me. To spread such gossip for some unknown reason. Hard to believe family doesn’t have time and can’t reconnect and love. What happened to people?

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    1. Karen Kalsman Hechtman Avatar

      Hi, I was wondering if you have since then, talked to your aunt to sort this out?

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  8. Chona Cruz Avatar
    Chona Cruz

    I can relate and a word can harm someone the rest of their living days. This Mary (ex-Aunt) claims to be a christian…

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  9. Adnan Nasib Khan Avatar
    Adnan Nasib Khan

    Nice Story..
    In The Holy Qur’an its clearly mentioned that do not spy and backbiting one another..Therefore, forming bad opinions leads to prying and exposing the defects and secrets of others and such knowledge results in backbiting whose causes and effects are all forbidden in Islam.
    In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
    “O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when dead? You would detest it. And fear Allah ; indeed, Allah is Accepting of repentance and Merciful” (Chapter 49 Verse 12: Surah Al-Hujurat, V 12)

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  10. bodyandsoulnourishmentblog Avatar

    Reblogged this on bodyandsoulnourishmentblog and commented:
    A great lesson!

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  11. sashikant gupta Avatar
    sashikant gupta

    beautiful piece of work by the judge

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